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Let’s call a Spade a Spade

Posted on: May 9, 2009

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“You tried to be a lady, but you’re more comfortable as a tramp,” said Dancing with the Stars judge Bruno to Lil Kim this week after her performance of the waltz.

it’s hard to feel bad for her given the less than stellar model she has provided for girls in our communities.  but does that give him the right to talk about her any kind of way?  if she can call herself out of her name; does that mean all of us can call her out too?  a lot of folks say yes! 

ladies when a guy sees you and you are wearing something that doesn’t leave much to the imagination; know that image is always going to be in the back of his mind.  taking you to meet his mama will be hard to come by.  you’ve been placed in the category of ‘a fun time.’ you will not be taken seriously. 

is this fair, no. 

is it right? who knows…

but is our reality.

let’s not play ourselves by showing out like a clown. 

you project how you want others to treat you.

so treat yourself with respect and you’ll get it.

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